What to do when your parent's fight or argue

There are many times when people feel the need to raise their voice to get their point across. Usually, a fight or argument will break out over a disagreement or problem and parents tend to have a lot of those. Whether they disagree on money problems, marital problems, or work problems, an argument can always start. Parents are just like everyone else and sometimes they cannot control if they raise their voice. They might forget that they have children in the house and become so loud that their children can hear. If you are one of those children, the ones with the fighting parents who never seem to be quiet enough about their arguments, here are some tips for you. First, it is important to remain NEUTRAL. If one of your parents think you are siding with the other, then you will receive their anger as well. Though this may not happen, your parents might ask your opinion on the matter. There is a higher possibility of this occurring if you are older. Simply tell your parents that you do not wish to choose sides and, if you can, walk away. It is bad enough having to hear about the fighting, much less to be a part of it. Second, go to a peaceful place. It is better if that is place is somewhere you cannot hear the fighting, but anywhere that makes you feel safe or happy will do. That place can also be someone else's house. If that is a possibility, perhaps getting out of the house is better. It can leave your parents that chance to work out their problems. You can also listen to music or a movie, anything that can distract you from the argument. You could also emerse yourself in an assignment or a book. It is important to keep yourself distracted and busy. Also, if you blame yourself, don't. You are not the person making them fight, even if the fight is about you, and you have to understand that fighting is normal. Some people need to just get everything out of their system to move on, though there might be better ways then to loudly argue. For instance, if the fighting causes you stress, find an outlet. Anything that can help you relieve any stress or anger the situation might be causing you is great. Relying on friends is also a good thing to do at this time. You do not have to tell them what is going on, but just being able to be around people who are not fighting can help and can distract you from your parents. Remember, that you have to worry about yourself. Even if your parents are fighting, you cannot forget about your own needs. Please comment or message back what you think. Remember, if you have any questions or need any advice, please go to our advice page or Q&A page.

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